I wouldn't dare put LINDSAY LOHAN references in here just because were listed in search engines that like that sort of thing... she was in MEAN GIRLS after all.
I would have put a sad face icon thing in the title, but we can't use them. That sucks. Moving on... Alright I can either explain this, or just link and expect people to read it; but I know I wouldn't want to do that. Explain it shall be:
Apparently women take each man they meet and immediately place him on a "ladder"; some go on the "friend" ladder and the chosen few get thrown onto the "date" ladder. It's called a ladder because these people are "ranked" by your chances to end up with them (or be great friends?). Now supposedly this happens immediately; so if you got put on that friend ladder, bad times for you. I was introduced to this whole thing by a friend at college, but if you want to read up knock yourself out. Men on the other hand have one ladder on which they place every female they meet because apparently they are incapable of meeting anyone that they wouldn't "get involved with romantically"
This whole idea has both its merits and its unbelievably stupid for an actual sociological theory moments. I don't want any kind of relationship - physical or otherwise- with every woman I meet. According to Ladder Theory I'm lying right now... But I'm not dammit. Mr. Sociologist would have you believe that males are nothing but heartless, conscious-less predators out to get whatever they can from whoever they can. I'm not going to lie and say I don't know people like that-- I mean 30 minutes of this season of Real World would tell you that much. I'm personally a little tired of the demonization of my gender. Everyone isn't an asshole; just most.
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